Parenting Perspective 

Listen, Reassure, and Practice 

Teasing about pronunciation can damage a child’s confidence, especially when they are trying their best to speak a new language. Start by listening to your child calmly when they tell you what happened. Let them know it is not their fault and that speaking with an accent or mispronouncing words is a normal part of learning. Reassure them that learning to speak takes time and courage, and that they should feel proud for trying. 

Practise tricky words together at home in a fun, relaxed way. You can role-play how they could respond to teasing with gentle words or by walking away if needed. Teach them simple phrases like, ‘I am still learning, please be kind,’ so they have something to say if it happens again. If the teasing continues at school, speak to the teacher so your child knows that adults are there to help. Praise their effort every time they use their words, reminding them that every small step builds stronger speech and greater courage. 

Spiritual Insight 

A Sign of Allah’s Mercy 

Islam honours every word spoken with sincerity, no matter how small or imperfect it may sound. Allah Almighty reminds us that our differences, including our voices and tongues, are part of His mercy and wisdom. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Rome (30), Verse 22: 

‘And amongst His Signs (of the infinite truth) are that He (Allah Almighty) created the layers of trans-universal existence and the Earth; and (designed) diversity of your languages and your (skin) colours; indeed, in this there are (logical and rational) Signs for those who are imbued with knowledge.’ 

This verse teaches your child that their accent or way of speaking is a sign of Allah Almighty’s beautiful creation, not something to hide. 

The Sunnah of Compassion 

The holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ never mocked or belittled anyone’s speech. He encouraged gentle words and protected people’s dignity. It is recorded in Jami Tirmidhi, Hadith 1921, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘He is not one of us who does not have mercy on our young and respect for our elders.’ 

When you comfort your child and remind them to speak kindly in return, you are following this Sunnah of compassion and good character. Make Dua with your child that Allah Almighty gives them courage and clarity in their speech.