Parenting Perspective 

Ramadan evenings can be filled with Tarawih, family gatherings, and Suhoor preparations, leaving parents wondering how to balance reading time with children while also prioritising Salah. The solution lies in weaving both into the night in a way that feels natural rather than rushed. Children need reading and closeness, while parents want to model devotion to Allah Almighty. With a little planning, both can be preserved without guilt. 

Set Clear Expectations Early 

Explain to children that during Ramadan, nights include both family reading and Salah. When they know what to expect, they are less likely to resist transitions. 

Choose Flexible Reading Slots 

Reading does not always have to be at bedtime. You can shift it to after Iftar, before Tarawih, or even earlier in the evening. This way, children still get their story time without cutting into Salah. 

Shorten but Enrich the Routine 

On late nights, read just one short story or even a page together, but do it with warmth and focus. A few minutes of sincere attention is often more nourishing than long, distracted reading. 

Involve Children in Worship 

Invite children to pray a short Salah with you, or let them sit nearby during Tarawih with a book. They learn that worship and learning can coexist peacefully rather than compete. 

By gently adjusting rhythms and explaining why, parents can meet both needs, showing children that Ramadan is a time of balance, not conflict. 

Spiritual Insight 

Ramadan nights are meant to blend worship, reflection, and family connection. Parents can model to children that prioritising Salah does not mean neglecting closeness, and that every act done with good intention can be a form of worship. 

Guidance from the Noble Quran 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Baqarah (2), Verses 185: 

‘(It is) The month of Ramadan, in which was revealed the (noble) Quran; a source of absolute guidance for mankind, with an empirical exposition of its guidance and proof…’ 

This reminds us that Ramadan itself is about guidance, so every moment (prayer or storytelling) can be shaped with that spirit. 

Teaching from the Hadith 

It is recorded in Sahih Muslim, Hadith 759, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Whoever stands in prayer during Ramadan out of faith and seeking reward, his previous sins will be forgiven.’ 

This teaches us the immense value of Salah in Ramadan nights, reminding parents to prioritise worship while balancing family connection. 

By balancing reading time and Salah with intention, you show your children that love for them and devotion to Allah Almighty are not rivals. Instead, they witness how both weave together into a blessed family rhythm, strengthening bonds with parents and with their Creator.