Parenting Perspective 

Link Inclusion Directly to Faith 

Children learn values most effectively when they are connected to everyday actions. To tie the act of inclusion to Islamic principles, explain that making others feel welcome is a part of our faith, not just a matter of good manners. When you see your child being inclusive, you can say, ‘That was a very kind thing to do, and it is an action that is beloved by Allah.’ This reinforces the idea that inclusion is a way of living their deen. 

Use Stories and Practical Examples 

Share simple stories from the life of the Prophet ﷺ that show how he treated everyone with dignity and respect, never excluding anyone. In your own family life, you can then connect your child’s actions back to these examples: ‘When you shared your game with your friend, that was an example of the brotherhood that our Prophet ﷺ taught us.’ These connections make Islamic values feel practical and memorable. 

A Reflection of a Muslim Identity 

By weaving Islamic reminders into real-life situations, you show your child that inclusion is not just about being polite — it is a reflection of their identity as a Muslim. This nurtures friendships built on respect and turns even simple games into acts of worship and mercy. 

Spiritual Insight 

Believers are Brothers 

Islam places the bond between believers at the very heart of the community, describing it as a brotherhood that must be nurtured with peace and compassion. Welcoming and including others is a practical way to uphold this sacred bond. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Hujuraat (49), Verse 10: 

‘ Indeed, the believers are brothers (to each other); so, make peace with your brothers; and seek piety from Allah (Almighty) so that you may receive His Mercy.‘ 

Mercy on Earth Invites Mercy from Heaven 

The prophetic tradition teaches a profound spiritual principle: when we show mercy to those on earth, Allah, the Most Merciful, shows mercy to us. Every small act of kindness and inclusion is a means of attracting divine mercy. 

It is recorded in Jami Tirmidhi, 1924, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘The merciful are shown mercy by the Most Merciful. Be merciful to those on earth, and the One above the heavens will be merciful to you.’ 

An Expression of Brotherhood and Mercy 

When you frame inclusion as an expression of brotherhood and mercy, your child will begin to see it as more than just a social skill. They will learn that every time they make space for someone else, they are practising their faith, strengthening the community, and earning the pleasure of Allah.