How does Wise Compass teach children to avoid backbiting in school friendships?
Backbiting, or Ghibah, is a social challenge that can begin quite early in school environments. It often starts as a way to bond with others, but it quickly poisons the heart and ruins trust. At Wise Compass, we help children recognise the danger of speaking ill of others behind their backs. As Muslim parents, we want to equip our children with the moral strength to stay away from such habits, as warned in the noble Quran. Our Islamic stories for kids focus on the beauty of loyalty and the importance of protecting a friend’s honour in their absence.
Through values-based reading, we show that being a true friend means being a person of integrity. Our faith-friendly story platform uses relatable school scenarios to show how gossip can snowball and cause unintended pain. In stories like The Boy Who Silenced a King, we see the importance of speaking the truth directly and respectfully. This encourages children to have the courage to either say something good or stay silent. By following the example of holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, who taught us that a believer is like a mirror to his brother, children learn to offer constructive help rather than destructive criticism. We want children to feel that their words are an Amanah from Allah Almighty. Wise Compass provides the language for children to gracefully step away from a conversation that is turning into backbiting. By celebrating loyalty and sincerity, we help children build deeper, more authentic friendships that are rooted in mutual respect. This builds a resilient identity that values the dignity of others even when they are not present, fostering a culture of trust and safety.