Parenting Perspective
Children’s emotional core is innocence, making them trust what they see and hear. They assume if something looks exciting, it must be both real and necessary. Parents must guide them to understand that advertising is built on influence, not honesty. When children realise that ads are created to stir emotions rather than convey facts, they begin to see through them. It is not about making them suspicious, but about helping them recognize that companies use images, colours, music, and words to make ordinary things feel essential. Use simple language to explain this: “Adverts are like magic tricks. They only show the shiny parts, not the whole truth.” Also explain, “Companies want you to feel like you need it, even if you were already fine without it,” and, “Most advertising is storytelling with one purpose: to make people want, not just know.” These phrases plant early seeds of critical thinking, helping children view advertisements with thoughtful distance rather than blind trust.
Building Curiosity and Awareness
Encouraging curiosity transforms watching into learning. When an advert appears, take a short pause and ask: “Do you think the toy really makes people happier, or is it just how they showed it?” This helps children notice exaggeration and emotional manipulation. Turn this into a lesson in discernment by using open-ended questions such as asking why they used a famous person in that ad, or if the food really looks like that in real life, or what feelings the music and colours tried to create. Soon, they begin to identify the techniques used by advertisers. Awareness transforms the viewing experience into a lesson in perception. Make learning lighthearted by creating a “family advert” for something ordinary, like a pencil, and exaggerate its features. Laughing about how easy it is to make anything seem necessary teaches a deep truth: advertisements are just crafted stories. To create emotional distance, address the child’s feeling directly. When a child says, “I really want that toy,” reply, “That ad made it look fun, did not it? Let us see if you still feel the same tomorrow.” This validates their feelings while showing that ads are designed to stir excitement. It teaches them to pause before reacting. It is also useful to discuss the concept of “false need.” Explain that a false need is something we feel we must have because of how it is presented, not because it actually improves our life. Give examples like asking: “Do we really need a new backpack when yours still works well?”
Spiritual Insight
The noble Quran offers timeless wisdom about how human desires can be beautified and exaggerated. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran in Surah Al Imran (3), Verse 14:
‘Beautified for people is the love of that which they desire, of women and children, heaped-up sums of gold and silver, fine branded horses, and cattle and tilled land. That is the enjoyment of worldly life, but Allah has with Him the best return…’
This verse reveals that the attraction of worldly possessions often lies in how they are presented, not in their true value. It reminds believers that while worldly joys are temporary, real contentment lies in spiritual awareness. Furthermore, advertising thrives on haste. It urges quick decisions and instant action. The Prophet’s teaching advocates for patience.
It is recorded in Jami Tirmidhi, Hadith 2012, that the Holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
‘Deliberation is from Allah, and haste is from Shaytan.’
Teaching children that real wisdom lies in reflection and patience helps them resist this false urgency. Every time they pause to think before wanting, they act from strength, not impulse. By explaining how advertisements create false needs, parents give children lifelong protection, replacing blind desire with discernment.