Parenting Perspective
It is a profound act of love to guide your child to value time, for time is perhaps the most critical and non-renewable provision (Rizq) Allah Almighty grants us. A child often sees time as an endless expanse, leading to procrastination and waste. Your desire is to instill in them a sense of urgency, accountability, and the spiritual wisdom that time is not merely minutes passing, but an investment opportunity for the Hereafter.
To help them truly value time, you must shift their perception from seeing it as an abstract concept to recognizing it as a tangible, countable blessing that is freely given but quickly spent.
The Daily Deposit Analogy
You can introduce the analogy that time is like a special bank deposit Allah Almighty makes every single morning. You might explain: ‘Every sunrise, Allah Almighty deposits exactly 86,400 seconds into your account, and the only rule is that you cannot save any of it for tomorrow. Once those seconds are spent, they are gone forever.’ This analogy immediately transforms time from an invisible flow into a valuable, finite resource that must be managed consciously. This teaches them that wasting time is not just laziness; it is carelessly discarding a priceless gift from their Creator.
The Routine of Focused Barakah
You can establish a clear routine of focused work that links sincerity to the multiplication of time’s blessing (Barakah). When your child has a task, such as homework or chores, encourage them to commit to a short period of intense, distraction-free focus, starting with Bismillah and a sincere intention.
After the session, help them assess the outcome based on quality and completeness, not just duration. You might observe: ‘You focused sincerely for thirty minutes without any distractions, and you finished what usually takes an hour. That extra thirty minutes you gained is Barakah. Allah Almighty placed a special blessing on your focused effort because you honoured your time and your intention.’ This lesson teaches them that true efficiency and freedom come not from rushing, but from respect and focused devotion.
Evening Muhasabah (Self-Accounting)
To foster accountability, institute a simple evening routine of Muhasabah, or self-accounting. This is not a time for criticism, but a gentle review of stewardship. You might ask just two questions: ‘What precious moments did we invest today that will bring us joy tomorrow, or benefit us in the Hereafter? (e.g., praying on time, reading a book, helping a family member).’ And, ‘Were there any parts of our day we carelessly wasted on things that brought no good?’
This routine teaches your child to view time as an asset portfolio. Every minute is either invested (in good deeds, learning, or rest) or wasted (in frivolous, non-productive activities). By consistently reflecting on the choices they made, they begin to internalise that time is their most valuable provision to be spent wisely.
Spiritual Insight
The reason time holds such profound value is directly tied to the Islamic concept of the fleeting nature of this dunya compared to the eternity of the Akhirah. The minutes we spend here are the only currency we possess to secure our everlasting life. If we see time as an endless river, we will waste it, but if we see it as a rapidly melting piece of ice, we will use it with urgency.
The Quran powerfully illustrates the brevity of our time here, especially when viewed from the perspective of the eternal destination.2
Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al-Mu’minun (23), Verses 113 and 114:
‘They will say, ‘We remained for a day or part of a day. Ask those who enumerate.’ He will say, ‘You remained not but a little, if only you had known.’
This exchange on the Day of Judgment dramatically reveals the illusory length of worldly time. You can explain to your child that when we face the reality of eternity, our eighty or ninety years here will feel like just a few hours. This realisation is a tremendous motivator. It teaches them that their current moments, the moments they might be tempted to waste on distraction, are the most valuable they will ever possess. Every second must be treated as a golden opportunity to gather deeds that will last forever.
Holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ instructed his followers to capitalize on this short provision by using their current blessings as investments before the circumstances of life change and prevent them from acting.
It is recorded in Jami Tirmidhi Hadith 2333, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
‘Take advantage of five before five: your youth before your old age, your health before your sickness, your wealth before your poverty, your leisure before your busy time, and your life before your death.’
This Hadith provides the ultimate manual for valuing the provision of time. You can explain that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ is warning us that the time and capacity we have now,our health, our energy, our spare hours,are temporary provisions. Once they are gone, our chance for serious spiritual investment may be lost. This urgency is not meant to cause anxiety, but to inspire purposeful action. It frames time not as something to be killed, but as a precious, fleeting provision to be seized and used for the highest possible gain.
To help a child value time as a form of Rizq, teach them that every day Allah Almighty deposits a fixed amount of seconds into their life, and once spent, they cannot be reclaimed. Establish routines of focused work, beginning with Bismillah and sincere intention, to show that concentration invites Barakah and multiplies the benefit of each moment. Introduce evening Muhasabah as a gentle review of how time was invested or wasted, helping them see every minute as a precious opportunity for good deeds, learning, or rest. Explain that worldly life is brief compared to the eternal Hereafter, and that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ advised using youth, health, wealth, leisure, and life before they are gone. By cultivating gratitude, reflection, and purposeful action, children learn that time is a priceless Divine provision, demanding care, focus, and spiritual accountability, and that their thoughtful use of it invites Allah Almighty’s blessings and reward.