Parenting Perspective 

A child’s fear of admitting a mistake in class often comes from a fear of embarrassment or of letting others down. Your role as a parent is to help them see that making mistakes is a normal part of life, and that admitting to them is a sign of strength, not weakness. 

Normalise Mistakes as Part of Learning 

You can reassure your child by explaining, ‘Everyone makes mistakes, even me. What matters most is how we handle them.’ This simple reminder helps to normalise errors and teaches them that a mistake is not a reflection of their worth, but an opportunity to learn and grow. 

Provide Simple Phrases and Praise Honesty 

Give your child simple, respectful phrases they can use in the classroom, such as, ‘I think I made a mistake, could I please try that again?’ Having these words ready can reduce their anxiety. When they do admit a mistake to you at home, make sure you praise their courage first: ‘I am so proud of you for being honest about that.’ 

Share Personal Examples 

It can be very powerful to share a story about a time you made a mistake in front of others but chose to admit it. Children find great comfort in knowing that adults also face these situations. This teaches them that being honest in class is not something to fear, but something that builds character and trust. 

Spiritual Insight 

Do Not Conceal the Truth 

Islam honours truthfulness and humility. The Quran commands believers not to conceal the truth, as this can cause harm and goes against the integrity that a person of faith should have. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Baqarah (2), Verse 42: 

‘And do not mix the truth with falsehood, and do not conceal the truth, and you are fully aware (of what you are doing).’ 

Honesty Earns Allah’s Recognition 

The prophetic tradition teaches that the consistent practice of honesty, even in small matters like schoolwork, is an act that earns a person a special status with Allah as being among the truthful. 

It is recorded in Sahih Muslim, 2607, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘A servant does not cease to tell the truth and encourage honesty until he is recorded with Allah as a truthful person.’ 

Honesty Builds Character and Trust 

By helping your child to view their mistakes as stepping stones, and by linking their honesty to self-respect and the pleasure of Allah, you can nurture true courage in their heart. They will learn over time that being truthful brings dignity and growth, while hiding their errors only increases their fear.