What routines can pair morning greetings with remembrance of Allah?
Parenting Perspective
The first few moments of the morning often set the tone for a child’s entire day. Your greeting can make the difference between a rushed, empty start and a calm, spiritually nourishing one. By intentionally pairing your morning greetings with the remembrance of Allah, you show your children that each day begins not just with breakfast or school, but with divine care and gratitude. These small, consistent routines can develop into habits that remain with them for life.
Start the Day with Warmth and Gratitude
When you wake your child, a gentle touch and a warm smile can make all the difference. Try saying, ‘Bismillah, it is a new day that Allah has given us.’ This simple act connects their first conscious moment of the day with a feeling of gratitude. The warmth of your greeting helps to soften their mood, while the mention of Allah teaches them to view each new morning as a divine blessing.
Introduce a Simple Morning Dua
Encourage your child to recite a simple supplication upon waking, such as the prophetic dua: ‘Alhamdulillahil-ladhi ahyana ba’da ma amatana wa ilayhin-nushur’ (All praise is for Allah who gave us life after causing us to die, and to Him is the resurrection). Reciting this together makes it a shared, reflective part of the morning routine, grounding their day in purposeful remembrance.
Weave Spiritual Reminders into Greetings
You can easily combine cheerful morning phrases with gentle spiritual reminders to add a layer of meaning.
- ‘Good morning! Allah has kept us safe all through the night.’
- ‘Rise and shine! Allah has given us another chance to do good today.’
These words link an ordinary greeting with a deeper sense of divine purpose and protection.
Establish Brief Family Rituals
You could introduce a brief, shared family ritual that fits easily into your morning. This might involve gathering for two minutes of dhikr before breakfast or reciting Surah Al Ikhlas together before heading out. Such brief rituals can fit naturally into even the busiest of mornings, building a consistent habit of remembrance without ever feeling like a burdensome task.
Through these simple practices, your children will begin to associate the morning not just with daily tasks, but with the kindness, protection, and guidance of Allah.
Spiritual Insight
The Quranic Injunction for Morning Remembrance
Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Rome (30), Verses 17:
‘So glorify Allah (Almighty), when you reach the evening (prayers of Maghrib and Isha) and when you reach the morning (prayer of Fajr).’
This verse establishes morning remembrance not merely as a good practice but as a significant act of worship and gratitude. Teaching children to begin their day in this manner helps to ground them spiritually from their very first waking hours.
The Prophetic Practice of Morning Dhikr
It is recorded in Jami Tirmidhi, Hadith 3469, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
‘Whoever says in the morning and in the evening: SubhanAllahi wa bihamdih (Glory is to Allah and praise is to Him) one hundred times, none will bring anything better than that on the Day of Judgement, except one who does the same as he does, or more.’
This hadith highlights the immense spiritual weight contained within simple, regular phrases of remembrance. By guiding children to link their morning greetings with such powerful words, you help them to begin each day with an infusion of joy and barakah, carrying the presence of Allah with them into whatever follows.