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What role does storytelling or reflecting on the Prophet’s ﷺ examples play in modelling character at home? 

Parenting Perspective 

Stories Over Instructions 

Children relate to stories more than they do to instructions. You are not dictating your child’s behaviour when you say, Let me tell you a story about how the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ showed kindness when someone was rude to him. Stories allow for empathy, creativity, and introspection while avoiding defensiveness. They do more than merely tell a child that they are valuable. Tell them about the Prophet ﷺ’s kindness to an elderly woman who used to taunt him or his delicate handling of a misbehaving child instead of telling them to be kind. These instances create moral memory tiny, striking images of kindness in action. 

Fostering Emotional Safety and Dialogue 

Additionally, storytelling fosters emotional safety. It makes it possible to reflect as a group without feeling guilty. What would you have done? or Have you felt that before? are some possible questions. As a result, the story becomes more of a dialogue than a lesson, allowing you and your child to share knowledge. Values like tolerance, honesty, mercy, and restraint become ingrained in family life because of these instances, which foster a loving and stable moral atmosphere. Because they are based on the qualities of a person your child may respect rather than fear, they are not abstract goals but rather actual possibilities. 

Spiritual Insight 

Storytelling was central to the mission of the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ. He used stories not only to convey information, but to stir hearts, guide minds, and cultivate character. Allah Almighty says in the noble Quran at Surah Yusuf (12), Verse 111: 

Without any doubt, there is in their narratives (of the perished nations) a lesson for the people endowed with understanding… “

The verse in question demonstrates that stories are spiritual tools rather than just amusement. They condense difficult moral lessons into moments that the audience may experience, recall, and revisit. It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 3461, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated: 

Convey (my teachings) to the people even if it were a single sentence, and tell others the stories of Bani Israel (which have been taught to you) … 

This Hadith serves as a reminder that even a single story, deed, or instance of the Prophet’s ﷺ example can have a significant influence when shared. Parents are not required to give lengthy lectures or impart formal knowledge. A child’s most memorable memory is usually of that peaceful time before bed when you asked them, Do you know what the Prophet ﷺ did when…? and you told them in a loving manner. The Sunnah is not only studied but also experienced at such gentle, narrative moments. In addition to imparting knowledge, storytelling fosters a household in which the Prophet’s ﷺ character is not only appreciated but also emulated. Faith becomes personal in this way. That is the shape of hearts. 

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