What emotional difference does it make when I affirm my child’s effort instead of just their success?

Your child’s emotional foundation is nurtured when you acknowledge their effort rather than merely their accomplishments. Saying something like, ‘You worked really hard on that,’ or ‘You kept trying even though it was difficult,’ encourages kids to believe that their value is independent of results. It teaches kids that even in the face of setbacks, bravery, perseverance, and turning up are important. Children who exclusively receive praise for their accomplishments may begin to hide their errors or dread failure in order to keep the praise. This can weaken emotional safety over time. Children, on the other hand, feel more comfortable taking chances, seeking assistance, and trying again when their efforts are often acknowledged. They gain emotional stability and lose their fear of failing. You are demonstrating to children that love and support are consistent, trustworthy, and based on who they are becoming rather than just what they accomplish.