What do I do if my child wants to watch videos instead of studying? 

Parenting Perspective 

Guiding Towards Balance and Self-Control 

There is nothing unusual about children being drawn to videos. Bright colours, quick sounds, and fast entertainment are very appealing, especially when learning feels hard or tiring. Instead of shaming your child for wanting a break, guide them gently towards balance and self-control. 

Setting Firm and Simple Boundaries 

Be clear that study time is not negotiable but also show that you understand they need time to rest and unwind too. Set firm and simple boundaries, such as allowing video time only after lessons are finished well and within a pre-agreed time. You could use a visual chart if it helps, so your child can see clearly when it is learning time and when screens are allowed. 

Managing the Environment and Offering Alternatives 

Keep gadgets out of reach during study sessions to avoid easy distractions. If your child struggles to switch off after screen time, offer other choices they enjoy but that do not involve screens. A quick snack, a fun board game, or some craft work can help them transition calmly. 

Praising Adherence to Limits 

Praise your child when they stick to these limits. When they test the boundaries, stay calm but firm. These gentle but steady rules will help your child learn that enjoyment does not come at the cost of responsibility. Over time, they will see that discipline is not about punishment but about building good habits that bring peace and balance. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam reminds us that time is precious and that our hearts can easily be distracted by things that do not benefit us if we are not careful. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Asr (103), Verses 1–3: 

‘By time. Indeed, mankind is in loss, except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advised each other to truth and advised each other to patience. ‘

This Ayah is a powerful reminder that every moment we choose matters. 

It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 6412, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated: 

‘There are two blessings which many people waste: health and free time. ‘

Share this wisdom with your child so they see screen time as a trust, not just a reward. Teach them to make a simple Dua before studying: O Allah, help me use my time wisely. Show them that taking breaks is good, but filling every break with mindless videos can drain their energy and distract their heart. Model this balance yourself, put your phone aside when studying with them or preparing lessons. Praise moments when they choose healthier breaks, like helping you in the kitchen or reading quietly. This helps your child grow into someone who enjoys good things in moderation but knows that true peace and Barakah come when our time is spent wisely for Allah Almighty’s sake, InshaAllah.