What can I do when I feel like I have run out of patience or ideas?

All parents have emotional boundaries, and it is normal for a child’s strong behaviour to be overwhelming, particularly when it occurs frequently or unexpectedly. Identifying your own emotional signals, like a faster heartbeat or feelings of tension, is an important first step in taking a moment to think before you respond. Identifying the emotion within yourself, like saying ‘I feel overwhelmed,’ can increase awareness and help prevent things from getting worse. It is important to recognise that feeling emotional discomfort is a normal aspect of parenting. However, the way you respond to these feelings can significantly influence the environment in your home. Developing a strategy for self-control, like taking a short break, washing up (if feasible), or repeating soothing phrases, enhances your ability to cope. Steering clear of harsh language or physical reactions during a tantrum helps maintain the parent-child relationship and prevents unnecessary damage. A parent who takes the time to enhance their own emotional understanding through self-reflection, prayer, and community support is in a stronger position to help their child develop emotionally.