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What are some signs that my child might be craving more one-on-one emotional connection? 

Parenting Perspective

A child’s desire for more one-on-one interaction is frequently communicated through actions rather than words. Clinginess, unexpected outbursts, or even emotional withdrawal are some of the symptoms you could observe. Some kids linger close by without saying much, while others constantly cut off discussions or act envious of their siblings. These indicate that their emotional tank is empty, not that they are acting inappropriately. Your child can be profoundly re-centred with just ten minutes of concentrated, non-corrective time spent with you, making eye contact, being physically close, and being truly present. ‘This time is just for you,’ you may remark, or you could just sit with them while they talk or doodle. Grand activities are not necessary for children. They are looking for the full attention that demonstrates that they are seen. They want you. You are sufficient.  

Spiritual Insight

Connection is a human need recognised in our faith. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Insaan (76), Verse 9: ‘We are only feeding you for the sake of Allah (Almighty); we do not seek from you any reward or any gratitude’ It is recorded in Sunan Niasi, Hadith 3687, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said, ‘Treat your children fairly, treat your children fairly.’ Making sure every child receives not only provision but also presence is a component of emotional fairness. Giving intentional personal time elevates it above simple parenting. In Allah Almighty’s way, it turns into a love offering. 

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