Parenting Perspective 

Speak with Calm Confidence 

Talking to other parents about your family’s language choices can feel awkward, especially if people do not understand why you want to raise your child to be bilingual or multilingual. Remember, you do not need to justify every decision, but having a calm, clear way to explain your reasons can ease tension. Focus on what is best for your child. You might say, ‘We speak both English and our home language so our child can stay connected to family and faith.’ 

If someone worries your child will get confused, gently reassure them that mixing words is a normal stage and that children usually figure it out with time and practice. If you feel criticised, remain patient and confident; you know your child’s needs better than anyone. Share positive stories about how your child switches between languages or how they enjoy learning new words. This helps others to see the benefits rather than the challenges. Speaking kindly but firmly shows your child that your home language is something to feel proud of, not something to hide. 

Spiritual Insight 

Our Differences Are Blessings 

Islam teaches us that our differences, including language, are blessings from Allah Almighty, not something to apologise for. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Hujuraat (49), Verse 13: 

‘O mankind, indeed, We (Allah Almighty) have created you all from one man and one woman; and placed you amongst various nations and tribes for your introduction to each other…’ 

This verse reminds us that our cultures, words, and ways are part of the beautiful diversity that Allah Almighty has placed in the world. 

The Sunnah of Gentle Speech 

The holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ always spoke with wisdom and patience, answering people’s worries with calm explanations rooted in truth. It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 6125, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Make things easy and do not make things difficult.’ 

When you explain your family’s language choices kindly, you are living this Sunnah of gentle speech. You teach your child to hold their identity with confidence and to respond to misunderstandings with patience and dignity. If you feel unsure, make Dua that Allah Almighty gives you the courage to speak clearly and protects your intention.