Parenting Perspective 

Have an Honest Conversation 

When children see cheating being normalised online, they can feel pressured to do the same just to keep up. It is important to have an honest conversation with them: ‘Yes, some people do cheat, but that does not make it right, and a win that comes from cheating feels empty.’ Explain that fair play is what builds real skill and confidence. Remind them that true growth always comes from effort, not from taking shortcuts. 

Teach Integrity as a Life Skill 

Remind your child that their behaviour in a game is a reflection of their character. It is helpful to praise them for playing fairly, especially when they lose: ‘I am so proud that you chose to be honest. That shows real strength.’ You can also encourage them to play in online communities or with friends who also value fair play, as this provides a supportive environment for the values you are teaching at home. 

Integrity is More Rewarding Than Victory 

By linking gaming behaviour to their broader character, you help your child see that integrity is more rewarding than hollow victories. This approach helps them develop resilience, honesty, and a healthy relationship with online play. 

Spiritual Insight 

Unfairness is Condemned by Allah 

Islam teaches that fairness is central to faith, and that even the smallest act of cheating or deception is condemned. The Quran gives a stern warning to those who are unjust in their dealings, a principle that applies to all aspects of life. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Mutaffifeen (83), Verses 1-3: 

‘ Woe be to those fraudsters (who shortchange people in their material dealings). Those people when they account (for receipts) from people, they demand it in full. And when they account (for debts) upon them, or (they have to pay) by weight, they cause a loss (to the other).‘ 

Honesty Brings Blessings 

The prophetic tradition teaches us that honesty brings blessings (barakah) into our endeavours, while dishonesty removes them. This is a powerful reminder for a child: a fair loss is more blessed than a win achieved through cheating. 

It is recorded in Sahih Muslim, 1532, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘If they speak the truth and make things clear, they will be blessed in their transaction. But if they conceal and lie, the blessing of their transaction will be wiped out.’ 

Every Choice Reflects Our Values 

When you show your child that fair play is directly linked to the Islamic value of honesty, they begin to see gaming as more than just a competition. They learn that every choice they make, even in a digital world, is a reflection of their character and has significance in the sight of Allah.