Children often receive pocket money that they do not spend, choosing instead to save it in jars, envelopes, or small bank accounts. Parents then face the question: should this money be included in Zakah, and more importantly, how do they explain it without burdening the child? The aim is to help children understand that Zakah is about recognising Allah Almighty’s generosity and ensuring that wealth benefits others.
Parenting Perspective
The explanation must frame long-term savings as a form of spiritual trust, thereby encouraging awareness and responsibility without generating anxiety over loss.
Framing Saving as Trust
Begin with a concept that every child can understand like trust (amanah). Say, ‘Allah Almighty trusts you with this money so that you can learn how to use it kindly.’ This immediately establishes a spiritual relationship with wealth. When children see their coins as amanah rather than mere possession, their hearts open to responsibility. Explain that Zakah applies only when money stays unused for a full lunar year and reaches a certain amount. Avoid mentioning numbers at this stage. Instead, say, ‘When our saved money grows and stays with us for a long time, we give a small part to help others. That keeps our hearts soft.’ The imagery of ‘soft hearts’ resonates emotionally with a child who fears hardness or selfishness.
Encouraging Awareness Without Anxiety
Children often interpret religious obligations as strict duties that invite punishment if forgotten. Parents must replace fear with awareness. Tell them: ‘Zakah is not about losing your money; it is about keeping it pure.’ Use phrases like, ‘Allah Almighty loves when we share what He gave us,’ instead of, ‘You must give or else.’ This transforms obligation into affection. If your child saves regularly, invite them once a year to check their jar with you. Say: ‘Let us see how Allah Almighty blessed your savings this year. Maybe some can help another child.’ Framing the exercise as gratitude turns calculation into worship.
Using Practical Examples
Children understand fairness and sharing better through stories and tangible connections. Tell them: ‘If you had ten apples and one of your friends had none, would you share one?’ When they say yes, explain: ‘That is what Zakah does. It makes sure no one goes hungry.’ This bridges tangible fairness with abstract worship. Let the child help you choose where their small Zakah share might go; perhaps school stationery for someone in need or food for a neighbour. Giving becomes relational and visible, strengthening empathy.
Building Lifelong Habits
Parents can use annual reminders, perhaps at the start of Ramadhan, to review saved amounts. Children love consistency. Create a small ritual: review savings, say a dua, decide the amount to give, and thank Allah Almighty together. This practice plants seeds of accountability and gratitude. By introducing Zakah early in this gentle, rhythmic way, parents build financial spirituality that will stay long after childhood.
Spiritual Insight
The noble Quran and Sunnah clarify that the intention behind saving and the purification of wealth are central to pleasing Allah Almighty.
The Goodness of Wealth
The noble Quran teaches that sincerity and quality are paramount when giving from earned wealth, including savings.
Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Baqarah (2), Verse 267:
‘O you who have believed, spend from the good things which you have earned and from that which We have produced for you from the earth. And do not aim toward the defective therefrom, spending [from that] while you would not take it [yourself] except with closed eyes. And know that Allah is Free of need and Praiseworthy…’
This verse teaches sincerity in giving. Parents can explain it simply: ‘We give from what is good because Allah Almighty gave us good.’ Even small, saved coins count when the intention is pure.
Generosity as a Daily Act
The holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ widened the definition of giving, teaching children that generosity is part of their daily life.
It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 2707, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
‘Charity is due upon every joint of the human body every day the sun rises.’
This Hadith shows that generosity is not limited by amount or occasion. Parents can tell children: ‘Even your smile, kindness, or prayer for someone is a form of giving. So when you give from your money, you are already practising something beloved to Allah Almighty.’ Zakah on unused pocket money is therefore not just a transaction; it is an act of remembrance. When children learn that Allah Almighty observes every effort, no matter how small, their self-worth grows. They realise that spiritual success lies not in quantity but in quality of intention. When children see giving as purification, not loss, they will hold their wealth lightly and their faith tightly.