Parenting Perspective 

When children are constantly exposed to a culture of status symbols, whether it is through branded clothes or extravagant celebrations, they can begin to believe that outward display is the ultimate measure of a person’s success. This weakens their ability to see the value in simplicity, which they may start to view as something inferior or undesirable. 

Shaping a Materialistic Outlook 

A constant focus on status symbols teaches a child to look at the world through a materialistic lens. They learn to judge themselves and others based on possessions, which can overshadow the more important qualities of character and kindness. 

The Emotional Consequences 

This environment can be emotionally damaging. Children who cannot match the status symbols of their peers may feel ashamed or inadequate. At the same time, children who are praised for displaying wealth may develop arrogance, thinking they are superior to others simply because of what their family owns. 

The Erosion of Gratitude 

An overemphasis on status symbols distracts children from appreciating the blessings they already have. Instead of valuing their health, family, and faith, they learn to focus on comparing themselves with others. This creates a restless spirit that is never satisfied, always seeking the next outward display to feel a sense of worth. 

The Long-Term Risks 

This culture can create a fragile identity in a child. If their self-worth is tied to possessions, they will struggle emotionally if those possessions are ever lost. It can also lead to shallow relationships, as friendships may be built on material comparison rather than on trust and sincerity. 

Guiding Children Back to Simplicity 

Parents can counteract these harms by modelling joy in simple living, showing gratitude for everyday blessings, and celebrating achievements of character rather than possessions. Involving children in acts of charity helps them to see the value of generosity and humility. By explaining that simplicity brings peace while excess brings a burden, parents can give their children a healthier foundation for life. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam teaches that a focus on worldly status symbols is a dangerous distraction from our true purpose. The value of simplicity is not just about living modestly; it is a spiritual tool that keeps the heart focused on gratitude and the remembrance of Allah. 

A Quranic Reminder on Worldly Distractions 

The Quran warns that a life spent chasing status and competing in worldly matters is a delusion that distracts from the reality of the Hereafter. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Hadeed (57), Verse 20: 

‘ Note that indeed, the life of this world is only: a drama; and amusement; and ostentatious; and superficial bragging between yourselves; and unbridled desire for capitalism and offspring…. and the worldly life is nothing but a spectacle of delusion.’ 

This verse warns that chasing status symbols is a distraction, while true and lasting success lies with Allah. 

The Prophetic Teaching on Contentment 

The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ taught that the greatest wealth a person can possess is not in status symbols, but in a heart that is content. 

It is recorded in Jami Tirmidhi, Hadith 2348, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Be content with what Allah has apportioned for you, and you will be the richest of people.’ 

This hadith highlights that richness comes from contentment, not from owning more than others. 

By sharing these reminders, parents can restore their child’s trust in the beauty and strength of a simple life. Children can learn that Allah values humility and sincerity far more than any outward display, which allows them to carry their faith in simplicity as a source of dignity and peace throughout their lives.