How can we encourage children to pause and ask permission before posting about someone else? 

Parenting Perspective 

In our highly connected world, teaching children to respect the privacy of others is just as important as protecting their own. The simple habit of asking for permission is a foundational lesson in digital etiquette and respect. 

Explain Why Permission Matters 

Help your child to understand that a photo or story might seem harmless to them, but could reveal details that the other person does not want shared. This is a fundamental lesson in respecting another person’s feelings and privacy. 

Teach the ‘Ask First’ Habit 

Encourage them to make it an automatic habit to ask, ‘Is it okay with you if I post this?’ before sharing anything that involves another person. This simple question should apply to friends, cousins, and classmates alike. 

Give Positive Feedback When They Remember 

When you see your child remembering to ask for permission, offer them warm and genuine praise. By acknowledging their thoughtfulness, you link the respectful habit with a sense of pride and responsibility. 

Model the Behaviour Yourself 

The most powerful way to teach this is to model it yourself. Make sure your child sees you asking for permission before you post photos of them or others. Your example demonstrates that this rule is for everyone. 

This practice builds a family culture of mutual respect that extends into the digital world. 

Spiritual Insight 

The Islamic tradition places a great deal of importance on seeking consent and respecting the boundaries of others. This principle of good manners is a vital guide for our online interactions. 

Seeking Consent is a Sign of Good Manners 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah An Noor (24), Verse 27: 

‘O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own houses until you ascertain welcome and greet their inhabitants…’ 

This reminds us that gaining permission before entering someone’s personal space, whether it is physical or digital, is a core part of Islamic etiquette. 

Respecting Others’ Rights 

It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 6241, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘If a person looks at you in your house without your permission and you poke his eye and damage it, you will not be blamed.’ 

This teaches us the immense seriousness of safeguarding a person’s privacy. Respecting their right to consent before their image is shared online is a vital part of this principle.