What can I do if I feel lonely or unsupported in my home-school journey? 

Parenting Perspective 

Finding Your Community 

Feeling lonely is one of the most common challenges parents faces when they choose to home educate, especially when friends or family do not fully understand the decision. Remind yourself that you are not alone in this, many parents feel the same way, even if they do not say so openly. Start with small, gentle steps: look for local home-school groups, park meet-ups, or online communities where you can share ideas, swap resources and simply talk to people who understand. Sometimes, finding just one like-minded family nearby can make a huge difference. 

Taking Initiative and Being Honest 

If you cannot find a group, think about starting one yourself, perhaps a simple coffee morning or a group trip to the park or museum. Be honest with your spouse and close friends about how you are feeling; bottling it up only makes isolation grow. Make time for your own wellbeing, whether that is a hobby, a quiet walk, or just a restful break. Small changes like visiting a library during the day or joining a daytime class can help you meet other parents. 

The Importance of Your Own Wellbeing 

Remember, needing connection does not mean you are failing, it shows that you are aware of your needs and strong enough to look after them. By taking your own wellbeing seriously, you teach your children that a healthy, balanced life is built on good relationships and a sense of community. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam recognises that we are created to live with connection, support, and mutual care. Raising your child is an Amanah, but you are not meant to shoulder every emotion alone. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Hujurat (49), Verse 10: 

‘The believers are but brothers, so make settlement between your brothers. And fear Allah that you may receive mercy. ‘

This Ayah reminds us that we are part of one Ummah, responsible for uplifting one another. 

It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 2446, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated: 

‘The believer to another believer is like a building whose different parts enforce each other. ‘

Make Dua for good companionship: O Allah, bless me with righteous friends who help me stay strong and positive. Share this with your child, too, that community is a mercy from Allah Almighty, and reaching out for help strengthens faith, not weakens it. If you ever feel isolated, remind yourself that your effort to educate your child at home is seen and valued by Allah Almighty, even if others do not always understand. Keep your heart open to new friendships and trust that your sincere struggle will bring unseen support and Barakah. By finding your circle, however small, and keeping your trust in Allah Almighty, you turn loneliness into a lesson in resilience, hope, and the power of community, InshaAllah.