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What short Dua helps a child ask for calm before a hard task? 

Parenting Perspective 

Children often face tasks that can feel overwhelming, such as a difficult test, a sports event, or even just speaking up in class. Teaching them a short and simple dua (supplication) gives them a powerful tool to seek calm and confidence directly from Allah Almighty, while also reminding them that they are not alone in their struggle. The goal is to choose a dua that is brief, easy to memorise, and deeply meaningful. 

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Choose a Dua for Calmness and Clarity 

One of the most powerful choices is the dua of Prophet Musa (peace be upon him) which he made when he was commanded to speak to the tyrannical Pharaoh, a task that filled him with apprehension. He asked Allah for ease, clarity of speech, and confidence. Children can learn to recite a shortened version of this beautiful prayer. 

‘Rabbi-shrah li sadri, wa yassir li amri.’ 

(‘My Lord, expand for me my chest, and make my task easy for me.’) 

Pair the Dua with a Calming Routine 

You can encourage your child to place a hand on their chest, take a slow, deep breath, and then say the dua softly before they begin their task. This simple physical cue helps to link the words of the prayer to a calming effect on their body and mind. 

Reinforce the Importance of Effort and Trust 

It is important to remind your child, ‘You do not need to be perfect; you just need to do your best and trust that Allah will help you with the rest.’ Over time, this dua can become a reliable anchor of peace and reliance for them in any challenging situation. 

Spiritual Insight 

The Quran and the example of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ teach us to turn to Allah in all of our affairs, big and small, seeking His help and guidance in every challenge we face. 

Quranic Words for Seeking Ease 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Taaha (20), Verses 25–26: 

(Prophet Musa (AS)) said: “O my Sustainer, fortify my mind (with confidence of achieving the impossible). And make it easy for me (to accomplish) all of what You have commanded me”.’ 

This verse reminds us that even the greatest of prophets turned to Allah Almighty to ask for calmness and clarity before facing their most difficult challenges. 

The Prophetic Counsel to Ask Allah for Everything 

It is recorded in Jami Tirmidhi, Hadith 3604, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Let each one of you ask his Lord for all of his needs, even if it be for a lace of his sandal when it breaks.’ 

This hadith teaches us that no request is too small or insignificant to bring to Allah. Even asking Him for a sense of calm before a school test or another difficult task is a beautiful and important act of faith. 

By teaching children this short dua and linking it with the concept of trust in God, parents are helping to root their child’s resilience in a deep spirituality. They learn from this that true calm comes not just from their own preparation and effort, but from knowing with certainty that Allah Almighty is always near to help them. 

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