What routines can we build where problem-solving happens without a device nearby? 

Parenting Perspective 

Children naturally develop resilience, creativity, and patience when they are given the space to solve problems without immediate digital help. The key is to intentionally design family routines that promote thinking, experimenting, and collaboration, where screens are simply not an option. 

Establish Device-Free ‘Thinking Zones’ 

Designate certain areas in your home as device-free ‘thinking zones.’ This could be the dining table, the garden, or a dedicated craft corner. These become safe, protected spaces where imaginative problem-solving can flourish without digital interruption. 

Introduce a Daily ‘Figure-It-Out’ Time 

Set aside a short, playful window each day for a ‘figure-it-out’ challenge. This could involve working on a puzzle, solving riddles, or tackling a small building project together. Keeping it light-hearted makes the activity feel rewarding in itself. 

Use Everyday Tasks as Opportunities 

Involve your child in finding solutions to everyday household situations, from fixing a wobbly chair leg to figuring out the best way to rearrange a room. This shows them that problem-solving is a natural part of daily life, not just a formal learning exercise. 

By creating routines where problem-solving is both fun and screen-free, you help your child learn to trust their own ideas and resourcefulness before reaching for a digital answer. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam deeply values personal effort (jihad al-nafs) and reflection (tafakkur) as essential means of learning and growth, encouraging believers to think for themselves and act with wisdom. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Ankaboot (29), Verse 69: 

‘ And those people that endeavour (to please) Us (Allah Almighty); so, We (Allah Almighty) shall indeed, guide them (to those pathways) that lead to Us; and indeed, Allah (Almighty) is with those who are benevolent (in their actions).‘ 

This reminds us that when we make a sincere effort to find a solution or improve ourselves, Allah’s guidance and support are promised to us. 

It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 6133, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘A believer is not stung from the same hole twice.’ 

This concise and powerful hadith teaches us to learn from our experiences, to reflect on our mistakes, and to apply that learning to future challenges, which is the essence of true problem-solving. 

By fostering screen-free problem-solving routines, you not only strengthen your child’s independence but also nurture the Islamic principle that true guidance and growth come through sincere personal effort and reflection.