Parenting Perspective 

Copying or mimic games can be surprisingly powerful in building connection across different ages. With toddlers, simple imitation games (such as copying facial expressions, clapping patterns, or silly sounds) help them feel seen and valued. It gives them the message: “What you do matters, and I enjoy joining in.” This strengthens early attachment and supports language and social development. 

For older children and teens, mimicry shifts from silly noises to more subtle forms, like mirroring body language, copying dance moves, or jokingly repeating a phrase. This shows attentiveness and can break down barriers when communication feels strained. Teens often push back against direct lectures but may warm up through light, playful imitation that signals acceptance rather than control. 

Benefits Across Ages 

• Affirmation: Children feel noticed when parents echo their actions. 

• Connection: Shared laughter reduces tension and builds rapport. 

• Learning Tool: Mimic games develop observation, coordination, and emotional intelligence. 

• Conflict Reset: Mirroring can diffuse frustration, turning a standoff into shared silliness. 

When used with sensitivity, these games say more than words: “I’m with you, I notice you, and I enjoy your company.” Over time, they become small bridges of trust that make children more open to deeper conversations and guidance. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam teaches us the importance of gentleness, mercy, and meeting people at their level. Even in play, showing interest in what a child does reflects humility and compassion, qualities that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ embodied. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Anbiyaa (21), Verses 107: 

‘And We (Allah Almighty) did not send you (O Prophet Muhammad ﷺ), except as a mercy for the whole of the trans-universal existence.’ 

This reminds us that mercy is expressed not only through serious guidance but also in small acts of kindness, attention, and warmth. 

It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 6098, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘The best of you are those who are best to their families.’ 

This teaches us that even in sacred moments, the Prophet ﷺ honoured children’s actions with patience and sensitivity, effectively “joining in” with their world. 

Copying or mimic games echo this spirit of mercy. By reflecting a child’s actions, whether toddler or teen, parents communicate love in their language. This nurtures rapport, builds trust, and ensures the child feels respected  turning ordinary moments into lasting bonds rooted in play, empathy, and faith.