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What kind of family habits help children feel emotionally grounded?

Parenting Perspective

Repetition and rhythm provide emotional stability for kids. Children gain a feeling of identity and inner peace when families establish routines that are predictable and intimate on a daily or weekly basis. Grounding anchors might be as simple as telling one story every Friday before bed, chanting a brief Dua after Salah, or having a family meal every evening. These rites do not have to be complex. A youngster might be reassured that their emotional environment is stable by receiving a regular goodnight embrace, a morning check-in regarding dreams, or simply a shared joke after school. Children are less nervous and have better emotional control when they know what to expect, and that connection is ingrained in the habit. Do not make these habits into strict duties. Not perfection, but warmth, presence, and meaning are what give them force. Children are gently given the message through consistent behaviours. These experiences gradually mould resilience, belonging, and emotional control.  

Spiritual Insight

Islam promotes habits that nourish the heart and home. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Baqarah (2), Verse 45, ‘And seek help through patience and prayer…’
It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 685, that ‘holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was very merciful. He said, ‘When you return home, impart religious teachings to your families and tell them to offer perfectly such and such a prayer at such and such a time and such and such a prayer at such and such a time. And at the time of the prayer, one of you should pronounce the Adhan, and the oldest of you should lead the prayer.’ In addition to strengthening Imaan, grounding practices like group Dhikr or Salah give children an emotional rhythm that firmly establishes them in their faith and family.

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