What is the right way to set limits on streaming platforms that subtly normalise haram values? 

Parenting Perspective 

Explain the ‘Why’ Behind the Limits 

Children are likely to resist limits if they seem like random restrictions. Parents should explain that some shows, while entertaining, can quietly normalise values that conflict with our deen, such as immodesty or disrespect. Saying, ‘Not everything that seems fun is good for our hearts; we are setting these limits to protect our family’s values,’ helps a child to see the boundary as an act of care, not control. 

Use Tools and Boundaries Wisely 

Parents can make use of practical tools like parental controls and user profiles on streaming services to minimise exposure to harmful content. However, boundaries should extend beyond technology. Agreeing on specific watch times and previewing content before approving it are also important steps. When parents apply these same standards to their own viewing habits, children see that the rules are fair and consistent for everyone. 

Replace with Wholesome Alternatives 

Instead of just saying ‘no’ to certain shows, a family should proactively find enriching alternatives. This could include watching Islamic documentaries, finding permissible family films, or listening to uplifting lectures together. Framing this as a shared activity, like a ‘Friday family movie night,’ makes the boundaries easier to accept. This teaches children that protecting one’s values is not about losing joy, but about gaining peace and dignity. 

Spiritual Insight 

Remembrance Protects from Immorality 

The Quran teaches that prayer and the remembrance of Allah are a fortress for the heart, protecting it from wrongdoing and subtle negative influences. A home where Allah is remembered is less susceptible to the normalisation of haram. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Ankaboot (29), Verse 45: 

‘ (O Prophet Muhammad ﷺ) Convey to them what has been revealed upon you from the Book (noble Quran), and establish prayers; as indeed, praying restrains (mankind) from immoralities and all those irrational actions; and the remembrance of Allah (Almighty) is the greatest (form of assistance and guidance for mankind)…’ 

The Danger of Normalising Wrong 

The prophetic tradition warns of a time when people will become desensitised to the lines between lawful and unlawful. Setting clear limits on media consumption protects a family from this gradual spiritual decline. 

It is recorded in Mishkaat Al Masaabih, 2761, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘A time will come when a man will not care about how he gets things, whether lawful or unlawful.’ 

Safeguarding Faith and Inviting Barakah 

By explaining the reasons for restrictions, applying consistent boundaries, and offering meaningful alternatives, parents can effectively protect their home environment. This helps children to learn that streaming wisely is not about ‘missing out,’ but is an important part of safeguarding their faith (iman) and inviting barakah into their lives.