What impact does sarcasm or teasing have on a child’s emotional trust?

Children absorb stuff far more thoroughly than adults realise. A child may perceive sarcasm as ridicule, even when it is used in a lighthearted manner. Because the words say one thing and the tone suggests another, it leads to misunderstanding. Even when humour is used sparingly to draw attention to an error, appearance, or emotional response, it frequently results in feelings of shame or self-defence. To appease the parent, a youngster may seem to laugh, but with time, they may start to conceal who they really are. Children learn that being vulnerable is dangerous when they are teased about their efforts or feelings. They learn to hide or distance themselves from their emotions rather than expressing them honestly. Building emotional trust requires more than simply affection; it also requires constant respect, even in our humour. It is still possible to be lighthearted and playful without making fun of the youngster. Humour that is safe and warm uplifts. It never leaves a child wondering whether they are being laughed at or laughed with.