Parenting Perspective 

Routines like getting ready for school, tidying toys, or preparing for bed often turn tense because children drag their feet or parents rush them. A short five-minute playful ritual can flip the mood, replacing stress with laughter and cooperation. The aim is not to make chores disappear but to lighten the atmosphere so the task feels less like a battle. 

Turn It into a Mini-Game 

Pick a playful format that lasts no more than five minutes. For example: 

• Beat the Clock: Set a timer and challenge, “Can we put away all the toys before the bell rings?” 

• Funny Walk Challenge: During tidying, everyone must move like a penguin or robot. 

• Lucky Leader: Let one child be the “commander” giving silly but safe instructions while others follow. 

Keep the Tone Warm 

Laugh with your child and show that you are enjoying the game. Avoid turning it into a competition that shames slower children. The goal is shared fun, not who “wins.” 

Close with Connection 

When the five minutes are up, gather everyone with a smile or high-five and say something like: “That was fun, and look how much we got done.” This helps children associate routine tasks with warmth rather than dread. 

This tiny dose of humour relieves tension, teaches cooperation, and makes family life flow more smoothly without long negotiations. 

Spiritual Insight 

Bringing laughter into routines is not frivolous; it is part of Islamic Adab to create mercy and warmth at home. Joy, when rooted in respect, strengthens bonds and makes worship and responsibility lighter to carry. 

Qur’an Guidance 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Nahal (16), Verses 97: 

‘Whoever undertakes virtuous actions – whether a male or female – and is of Muslim faith; We (Allah Almighty) shall surely sustain him with a life of purity; and We shall certainly reward them with recompense which befits the best of their actions.’ 

This reminds us that righteous living is not only about formal worship but also about creating a wholesome, good life, filled with kindness and moments of joy. 

Hadith Reminder 

It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 6125, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Make things easy and do not make them difficult. Give good tidings and do not repel people.’ 

This Hadith emphasizes the importance of creating ease and joy in everyday tasks, reinforcing that life’s responsibilities should be approached with positivity and gentleness. Playful rituals are a way of embodying this principle, making routine tasks feel lighter and more enjoyable. 

By adding a short playful ritual into tense routines, parents mirror the prophetic example of gentleness and lightness. Children learn that faith and family life are not about constant seriousness, but about blending discipline with mercy, laughter, and the reminder that every smile can be an act of worship.