What does it mean if my child does not show interest in numbers or letters?

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Alaq (96), Verse 1: ‘Read in the name of your Sustainer, Who has created you.’ This verse, the very first revelation, begins with the act of learning, not for performance or prestige, but in the name of Allah Almighty. It reminds us that learning is an act of worship and should be approached with humility, purpose, and patience.
It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 5027, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: ‘The best among you are those who learn the noble Quran and teach it.’ Here, the value is placed not on how quickly knowledge is gained, but on the sincerity with which it is pursued and shared. A child’s learning journey is not a race. Some children show early interest in reading and numbers, while others bloom later through different routes.
Honouring a child’s developmental rhythm reflects a deeply spiritual understanding of education. Just as the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ nurtured his companions according to their individual readiness and temperament, we too must meet our children where they are. Interest in numbers or letters will come when the heart and mind are ready. Until then, offer warmth, stimulation, and trust. Learning grounded in love and intention is the most lasting of all.