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What do I say about picking up litter in the park that is not ours? 

Parenting Perspective 

Children often believe responsibility ends where their mess does; that they must clean only what they caused. Teaching them to pick up litter that is not theirs helps expand their circle of care from “my space” to our world. It builds empathy, civic consciousness, and quiet stewardship, all qualities Islam values deeply. When you see litter, do not just instruct, “Pick that up”; instead, invite reflection: “Someone forgot, but we can help make Allah’s earth beautiful again.” This turns a chore into purpose. 

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Teaching Stewardship Through Example 

Start with action before explanation. When you bend down to collect a wrapper, say simply, ‘Let us make the park cleaner than we found it.’ Children learn faster from what you do than what you say. Keep your tone calm and positive, not critical; avoid phrases like, ‘People are so careless.’ Instead, say, ‘Every time we clean up, we are helping Allah’s creation breathe easier.’ It shifts their mindset from judgement to compassion. 

For younger children, frame it as teamwork: “Let us be helpers for the earth.” For older ones, link it to dignity: “Good people leave places better than they found them.” Over time, this habit transforms from an external rule to an inner principle; they begin to see cleanliness as self-respect, not instruction. 

Connecting Small Actions to Big Character 

Explain that small acts reveal big values. Picking up litter is not about others seeing; it is about living by values even unseen. You might say, “When we clean up what is not ours, it shows we care more about goodness than credit.” This helps them understand that character is defined by the quiet choices we make when there is no audience. 

Create a mini family ritual: each park visit ends with a “five-second tidy” everyone picks up one or two small items before leaving. Make it light-hearted but purposeful. When your child asks why, reply, ‘Because this world is a trust from Allah, and we are its caretakers.’ Such repetition turns environmental responsibility into spiritual gratitude. 

Spiritual Insight 

Cleanliness in Islam is an act of faith. The holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ called it half of faith, linking physical cleanliness to spiritual purity. Picking up litter even a small piece is a silent act of worship, expressing gratitude for the earth Allah Almighty entrusted to us. When your child understands this, cleaning becomes honour, not humiliation. 

The Earth as a Sacred Trust 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Aa’raaf (7), Verse 31: 

 ‘O children of Adam, take (appropriate) measures to beautify yourself (before you appear) at any place of worship (for Prayer); and eat and drink and do not be extravagant (wasteful), as indeed, He (Allah Almighty) does not like extravagance. 

This verse calls believers to cleanliness, moderation, and respect for all that Allah provides. You can explain to your child, ‘When you pick up litter, you are protecting what Allah gave us. It is your way of saying thank you for His earth.’ This turns environmental care into an expression of faith. 

Reward for Removing Harm from the Path 

It is recorded in Jami Tirmidhi, Hadith 2614, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Faith has over seventy branches… The highest of them is saying “La ilaha illallah” and the lowest is removing something harmful from the path’ 

You can tell your child, ‘Even picking up rubbish earns reward because it removes harm from others. Allah counts it as faith.’ This simple teaching helps them see that cleanliness is not small; it is sacred. 

End your visit to the park with a reflection together: “We leave this place better for Allah, not for people to notice.” Over time, your child will see litter not as someone else’s mess, but as their own opportunity, a chance to show care for creation, gratitude to the Creator, and quiet faith that shines through simple, unseen good deeds. 

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