Parenting Perspective 

Tantrums caused by sensory overload typically occur when a child’s nervous system is overstimulated. These outbursts differ from usual tantrums, as they are not always linked to a desire for a toy or opposition to a rule. Parents might observe that their child becomes distressed in busy environments, under bright lights, with loud noises, or when wearing uncomfortable clothing. The child might cover their ears, look away, or become very quiet before the outburst occurs. Afterward, they might seem exhausted or unusually silent. 

Recognising the Triggers 

A further indication is inconsistency; the child might often have tantrums during: 

• Shopping trips 

• Social events 

• Transitions like getting dressed or switching from one activity to another 

These indicators suggest that there is a sensory or emotional need that has not been fulfilled. Making observations and adjustments, such as providing quieter environments, establishing clear routines, or choosing simple clothing, can help enhance the child’s well-being. Getting an assessment can be beneficial if the pattern continues over time. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam encourages parents to see their children’s individual needs as a trust. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Nisa (4), Verse 9: 

And let those people (who are the guardians and executors of orphans) be anxious; as if they had left behind them offspring who were feeble (morally and intellectually), and they were concerned about their (future); so (act in such a manner) that you may attained piety from Allah (Almighty), and speak with (the poor and the orphans, with) appropriate words of comfort. 

This verse encourages parents to be fair and attentive to their child’s individual needs. A child who responds intensely to their surroundings might be among those who require a softer approach and individualised support. 

It is recorded in Sahih Muslim, Hadith 1829a, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated: 

Beware. every one of you is a shepherd and every one is answerable with regard to his flock…. 

This Hadith emphasises the need to recognise the unique temperament and situations of each child, including their sensory sensitivities. Like how one child might require guidance, another might need safeguarding. Understanding sensory-based behaviour is an important aspect of meeting parental responsibilities with awareness and compassion.