What age-appropriate ways can parents explain the concept of ‘stranger danger’ in online spaces? 

Parenting Perspective 

The concept of a ‘stranger’ online can be confusing for a child. The key is to use simple, clear language that empowers them to be cautious without making them fearful of the digital world. 

Use Simple, Familiar Language 

Instead of using abstract terms like ‘stranger danger,’ use simple language like ‘people we do not know in real life.’ You can link it to a concept they already understand, such as not talking to unfamiliar people at the park, and explain that the same rule applies online. 

Introduce the Idea of Online Boundaries 

Explain to them that just like in stories, people online can sometimes pretend to be someone they are not. Teach them the clear boundary of never sharing personal information, such as their full name, school, or where they live, with anyone they do not know in person. 

Role-Play Safe Responses 

Gently practise what to do in different scenarios. For example, role-play what they should say if someone online asks for a photo. A simple, rehearsed response like, ‘I need to ask my mum or dad first,’ gives them a confident and safe reply to use if a real situation ever arises. 

Reassure While Empowering 

It is crucial to balance caution with reassurance. Let them know that while it is important to be careful, they should never feel afraid to tell you about anything that makes them feel uncomfortable online. Reinforce the message that they will never be in trouble for telling you. 

By teaching in this way, children can develop healthy digital habits without growing fearful of the internet, seeing it instead as a tool they can use wisely and safely. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam places great importance on protecting our privacy and choosing our company wisely. These principles are just as relevant in the digital world as they are in the physical one. 

Guarding Privacy is a Value in Islam 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah An Noor (24), Verse 27: 

‘O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own houses until you ascertain welcome and greet their inhabitants…’ 

This reminds us that the principles of seeking permission and respecting privacy are essential in all our interactions. In the online world, this means safeguarding our personal information and our family’s private space. 

Wisdom in Choosing Companions 

It is recorded in Sunan Abu Dawood, Hadith 4833, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘A man follows the religion of his friend, so each one should consider whom he makes his friend.’ 

This teaches us that the company we keep has a profound effect on us, whether online or in person. We must be careful and selective in who we interact with. 

By linking online safety to Islamic teachings on privacy and companionship, parents can help children understand that protecting themselves online is part of living by the values Allah loves.