Is it ever helpful to record tantrums to show my child later?

Documenting a tantrum for learning purposes requires careful consideration and a thoughtful approach. Some parents see it as a chance to think about behaviour later, but for many young children, watching that footage can feel shaming or confusing, particularly when emotions were high. Instead, think about whether the goal can be achieved through discussion or sharing a story. If a record is maintained, it should serve to help the parent understand, rather than for the purpose of replaying events. Videos can assist a parent in examining their own responses, tone, or triggers, which can lead to improvements in their parenting style. Exposing the child to these situations may compromise their feeling of security. Children develop emotional awareness better when they experience gentle discussions, positive role models, and trust, rather than through confrontation or monitoring. Understanding should precede any form of correction. If your child is older and emotionally mature, a short and private discussion might be beneficial, but always ensure you have their consent first.