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In what ways can storytelling help deepen emotional closeness with young children?

Parenting Perspective

An effective technique for developing emotional ties is storytelling. It enables parents to establish a connection with their kids through presence, tone, and expression in addition to words. You are stepping into your child’s emotional world when you sit down to tell them a story, whether it is from your own life, a book, or even something you made up. Young children frequently use symbols and their imagination to make sense of their feelings, and stories provide a secure environment for them to explore complex emotions. Children can learn from personal experiences that their parents experience fear, courage, failure, and hope just like everyone else. Children feel less alone in their own emotional experiences as a result, and the adult world is humanised. Telling them a short story about a time when you were afraid or misinterpreted will encourage them to share a similar experience. Your child will feel emotionally seen, heard, and protected when you read stories to them, especially if there is no correction or haste involved.

Spiritual Insight

The noble Quran itself uses stories as a divine teaching method. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Yusuf (12), Verse 111: ‘Without any doubt, there is in their narratives (of the perished nations) a lesson for the people endowed with understanding….’ It is recorded in Shahih Bukhari, Hadith 3461, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said ‘convey (my teachings) to the people even if it were a single sentence, and tell others the stories of Bani Israel (which have been taught to you),’ This honourable Sunnah is reflected when you genuinely tell your children stories. It is a holy kind of Tarbiyyah that nourishes the heart and the soul, not just a way to spend time together.

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