Parenting Perspective 

Truthfulness and creativity can flourish side-by-side when guided wisely. A child’s imagination is a healthy tool for them to explore the world. The key is to encourage this creative expression while also teaching that honesty is essential in real-life situations. 

Separate Play from Reality 

Help your child to distinguish between pretend play and telling the truth by using clear, gentle language. You can say, ‘That is a wonderful, creative story! Now, can you tell me what really happened?’ This validates their imagination while still holding a clear line for what is factual. 

Provide Creative Outlets and Reinforce Honesty 

Offer plenty of opportunities for your child’s imagination to thrive, such as through drawing, drama, or storytelling. When their creativity is celebrated in these contexts, they are less likely to use made-up stories inappropriately. At the same time, when you are asking about real events, gently emphasise that truth is what matters most. Praising their honesty, especially when it is difficult, shows them that it is a respected value. 

Model Both Honesty and Playfulness 

Children learn balance by watching their parents. You can model honesty by admitting your own small mistakes, while also taking the time to engage in imaginative play with them. This shows that a person can be both responsible and fun-loving, and that integrity and creativity do not have to be in conflict. It teaches that honesty is the foundation of trust. 

Spiritual Insight 

Avoid All False Statements 

Islam values creativity and storytelling but warns against presenting falsehood as fact. The Quran commands believers to avoid false statements, reminding us that truth is sacred and should not be mixed with our daily interactions. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Hajj (22), Verse 30: 

‘…So, abstain from the loathsome beliefs and practices of idol worship; and abstain from making false statements.’ 

Good Character Perfects Faith 

The prophetic tradition teaches that a complete believer is one who has the best character. This includes being honest and trustworthy, while also engaging with others in a kind and, where appropriate, creative manner. 

It is recorded in Jami Tirmidhi, 1162, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘The most complete of the believers in faith are those with the best character.’ 

Honesty as the Foundation of Trust 

By teaching your child that truthfulness protects their dignity while creativity enriches their mind, you give them a framework for balance. They learn to express their imagination joyfully while keeping honesty as their guiding principle, strengthening both their character and their connection to Allah.