How do I stop myself from comparing my child’s behaviour to other kids?

Comparing oneself to others is a common reaction in parenting, but it often does more harm than good. Observing other children who seem calmer or more cooperative can cause a parent to reflect on their own child and parenting methods. Each child has their own distinct personality, growth journey, and family setting. Actions do not determine a person’s value or achievements. What you see in public often does not represent the complete picture. When parents concentrate on their own child’s development rather than comparing to others, they start to see improvements they may have missed before. Maintaining a short record of minor achievements or instances of emotional strength in your child can assist in shifting your viewpoint. It is important to keep in mind that behaviour is influenced by various hidden factors. Sleep, diet, attachment, and sensory needs promote a more understanding approach. Parenting with a focus on satisfaction instead of comparison fosters a stronger emotional bond.