How do I stop my toddler from banging their head or hurting themselves during a tantrum?

Caring for a child in distress is a deeply spiritual responsibility. The noble Quran advises believers to act with mercy and protect the vulnerable. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Israa (17), Verse 31: ‘And do not abort your children for fear of poverty, for it is We (Allah Almighty) Who provides nourishment for them and for you; indeed, aborting (that child) is the biggest (sinful) mistake.’ This verse, although discussing a different situation, emphasises the importance of a child’s wellbeing. Parents need to protect not just their children’s physical safety, but also their emotional well-being. Even in difficult situations, it is important to maintain the child’s dignity.

It is recorded in Sunan Abu Dawood, Hadith 2319, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated: ‘Those who do not show mercy to our young ones and do not realise the right of our elders are not from us.’ This Hadith serves as a reminder that helping and guiding a child during a difficult moment is an act of kindness, not a form of punishment. By responding with kindness and taking practical steps, the parent embodies a respected example, grounding the home in both care and strength, for the sake of Allah Almighty.