How do I stay connected with my child even when I have to set limits?

Establishing boundaries is an essential aspect of parenting, yet it doesn’t need to negatively impact the emotional bond with your child. Children tend to feel more secure when their parents establish clear and consistent expectations while also showing warmth. You can decline something while still maintaining a positive connection with the other person. This can be achieved by maintaining a calm demeanour, showing understanding, and allowing the child to express their feelings while keeping the boundary intact. I understand that you are feeling upset about not being able to play right now, but I can still help you in cleaning up. This approach to setting limits demonstrates how to manage emotions and shows respect. Being consistent while also being emotionally available teaches children that boundaries are an essential part of a healthy relationship, rather than a denial of their worth as individuals. As time goes on, this helps children learn to honour boundaries without feeling scared or detached from their carer.