How do I show that Allah’s care surrounds them even when I am busy? 

Parenting Perspective 

It is natural for a child to interpret a parent’s busyness as a form of absence. With a thoughtful approach, however, you can reassure them that Allah’s care is a constant presence in their lives. This helps to shift their feeling of dependence from you alone towards a deeper, more enduring source of love and protection. 

Establish Anchors of Spiritual Connection 

When you anticipate being busy, you can establish small, comforting rituals that act as reminders of Allah’s presence. Before you begin work, you could say, ‘May Allah watch over you while I am occupied.’ Simple gestures, such as leaving a note with ‘Bismillah’ in their lunchbox or a bedtime reminder that ‘the angels are with you as you sleep,’ can serve as powerful spiritual anchors in your absence. 

Empower Them with Simple Duas 

Teaching your child simple supplications for moments when they feel alone is a practical way to empower them. Short phrases like, ‘Ya Allah, please help me,’ or ‘Allah is with me,’ provide them with a direct tool for self-soothing while reinforcing their connection to the divine. This transforms potentially anxious moments into opportunities for remembrance, teaching them that Allah’s care is always accessible. 

Offer Reassurance Through Technology 

In moments of separation, technology can be used wisely to bridge the distance. A quick voice note or a short message saying, ‘I am thinking of you, and remember that Allah is taking care of you,’ can make a significant difference, helping your child to feel emotionally secure and connected. 

Model a Calm Trust in Allah 

Your own state of mind has a significant impact. If you appear stressed or distracted, your child will likely feel unsettled. Instead, aim to offer reassurance through a calm smile, a gentle hug, and a consistent phrase like, ‘Allah never leaves your side.’ Over time, this calm and predictable modelling helps them to internalise faith as a reliable and steady source of comfort. 

By weaving these habits into your family life, you teach your child that your presence is not a condition for Allah’s care. It becomes an unwavering truth they can rely on, regardless of circumstance. 

Spiritual Insight 

The Quran on Allah’s Unfailing Nearness 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Qaaf (50), Verses 16: 

‘And indeed, We (Allah Almighty) have created mankind, and so We have full knowledge of all the (thoughts he) murmurs within himself; and We (Allah Almighty) are closer to him than his jugular vein.’ 

This profound verse affirms that Allah’s presence is more constant and intimate than any human relationship. Sharing this concept with your child reminds them that even when you cannot be there, Allah is nearer to them than anyone else could ever be. 

Prophetic Guidance on Divine Protection 

It is recorded in Jami Tirmidhi, Hadith 2516, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Be mindful of Allah, and Allah will protect you. Be mindful of Allah, and you will find Him in front of you.’ 

This hadith teaches us that divine protection is not bound by our physical circumstances. When children are raised with a deep-seated trust in these words, they learn that their safety and wellbeing ultimately rest in Allah’s hands. 

Building a Foundation of Lasting Trust 

When you consistently reinforce these spiritual truths with warmth and sincerity, your child will not see your moments of busyness as a source of fear. Instead, they will learn to anchor themselves in the comforting presence of Allah, carrying this unshakeable trust with them into adulthood.