Parenting Perspective 

Children who are neurodiverse on the autism spectrum or living with sensory sensitivities often experience heightened emotional responses in busy or loud environments. They may show anger or distress not from defiance, but from sensory overwhelm. Responding with calm empathy and clear structure is essential. 

Prepare for sensory challenges 

• Explain upcoming situations in advance and how long they will last 

• Offer practical tools: noise-reducing headphones, squeezable toys, or a small safe object 

• Establish a non-verbal signal like a hand squeeze to alert you early 

Respond to overwhelm with calm and care 

• If distress arises, guide them gently to a quiet space 

• Give time and space to recover without pressure 

• Praise attempts to express emotions or use coping tools 

This approach fosters trust and equips your child to develop emotional regulation and self-awareness. Over time, they will gain a sense of mastery over their triggers and feel supported through life’s more intense moments. 

Spiritual Insight 

Allah Almighty says in Surah Al Baqarah (2), Verse 286: 

‘Allah (Almighty) does not place any burden on any human being except that which is within his capacity… ‘

This verse affirms that individual sensitivities and thresholds are known to Allah Almighty and are part of Divine wisdom. We are encouraged to meet each child where they are. 

A supportive example in the Sunnah is seen in Sunan Abu Dawood, Hadith 4943, where the Holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Those who do not show mercy to our young ones and do not realise the right of our elders are not from us. ‘

This teaching reminds us to approach every child with kindness and flexibility. 

Encourage your child to recite a simple Dua before entering social spaces: 

‘O Allah, make this place comfortable for me. ‘

When sensory distress is met with compassion rather than frustration, children feel emotionally safe. This not only strengthens self-regulation but also nurtures spiritual confidence.