How do I respond patiently when “one more level” becomes ten? 

Parenting Perspective 

It is common for children to ask for “just one more level” when playing games, only for that to stretch into ten. Parents often feel tricked or disrespected, and tempers flare. But shouting or unplugging in anger usually leads to bigger battles. A calm but firm approach teaches boundaries while protecting connection. 

Set Limits Clearly in Advance 

Before play starts, state the rule. This prevents arguments later. 

• ‘You can play two levels. After that, it is time to stop.’ 

• Use a timer or write the number down so both of you remember. 

Stay Consistent at the Limit 

When the agreed levels are over, respond calmly. Avoid bargaining, because every exception weakens the boundary. 

• ‘We said two levels, and two are done. Time to stop now.’ 

Acknowledge the Desire Without Giving In 

Show empathy so your child feels understood, but still hold the line. 

• ‘I know you want more, the game is fun. But stopping when we agreed shows respect.’ 

Praise Respectful Stopping 

If your child accepts the limit, even reluctantly, reinforce it. 

• ‘You stopped when I asked. That showed real maturity.’ 

A mini-dialogue example: 

Child: ‘Please, one more level!’ 

Parent: ‘I understand it is hard to stop. But the two levels we agreed on are finished. Now it is time to switch off.’ 

Spiritual Insight 

Games and entertainment are not wrong, but they must stay within limits. Islam teaches us that discipline in leisure is part of protecting time and faith. 

Balance in Use of Time 

This reminds us that balance, even in play, is the way Allah Almighty loves. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Furqaan (25), Verse 67: 

‘ And it is those people that do not spend extravagantly, nor miserly; and (act in such a way) that is a balanced format between these two (extreme characteristics).’ 

The Prophet ﷺ on Keeping Promises 

This Hadith teaches the importance of keeping to agreements. By sticking to the agreed limits, you model honesty and fairness for your child. 

It is recorded in Sunan Nisai, 5021, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘The signs of a hypocrite are three: when he speaks, he lies; when he makes a promise, he breaks it; and when he is entrusted, he betrays the trust.‘ 

By responding patiently but firmly, you show your child that limits protect both play and family peace. Over time, they learn that keeping promises and respecting boundaries are not restrictions, but values that strengthen character and faith.