Parenting Perspective 

Plan Ahead 

Crowded places like shopping centres, fairs, or community events can feel risky when you have a child who moves quickly, wanders, or struggles to stay close. Safety begins with calm, realistic planning. Talk to your child before you leave home: ‘We are going where there will be lots of people. We must stay together.’ 

Establish Clear Rules 

Use simple, clear rules they can remember: ‘Hold my hand,’ ‘Stay where I can see you,’ or ‘Ask before going anywhere.’ Practise these in quieter settings first. Some families find wrist straps or harnesses helpful, especially with young children or those with special educational needs (SEN) who may not respond if called. 

Practical Safety Measures 

Dress your child in bright, easily recognisable clothes. Take a quick photo of what they are wearing that day, as it will help if you need to describe them to others. For older children, teach them basic safety steps: ‘If we get separated, stay where you are or find a mother with children to help you.’ Carry a small card in your child’s pocket or backpack with their name, your name, and your phone number. You can also use simple ID bracelets. If your child struggles with speech, teach them to show the card if they need help. 

Stay Alert and Calm 

Stay alert but calm. Watch for signs of overwhelm or wandering. If your child shows signs that they need a break, such as covering their ears or becoming restless, find a quieter spot to regroup. Keep outings short if needed. Praise them when they follow safety rules: ‘You held my hand the whole time; I am so proud of you.’ 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam encourages us to protect our loved ones as part of our trust (Amanah) from Allah Almighty. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Tahrim (66), Verse 6: 

‘O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire… ‘

While this Ayah speaks of spiritual protection, it reminds us that guarding our family’s safety in all areas is part of our duty. 

The holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ showed practical care for children’s safety and never left their wellbeing to chance. He ﷺ would remind his companions to tie their camels, take every wise step, and then put their trust in Allah Almighty. It is recorded in Sunan Ibn Majah, Hadith 2119, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated: 

‘Tie your camel and trust in Allah. ‘

This Hadith Shareef teaches us that faith and practical safety go hand in hand. 

Make a quiet Dua before leaving home: ‘O Allah Almighty, protect us and return us home safely.’ Remind your child that staying close to you is part of keeping the trust Allah Almighty has given you both. 

With gentle preparation, clear rules, and trust in Allah Almighty, you can enjoy outings with more confidence, knowing you are doing your best to keep your child safe while placing your heart in His care.