How do I help my child rediscover the joy of play that does not involve devices? 

Parenting Perspective 

When a child’s primary source of stimulation comes from the fast-paced world of devices, other forms of play can initially feel slow or uninteresting in comparison. The key is to make non-digital play feel inviting, interactive, and rewarding again, so that it gradually regains its natural appeal. 

Build a Bridge from Their Digital Interests 

Start by introducing activities that connect to what your child already loves on their screen. If they have a favourite cartoon, you could find related storybooks, character figurines, or craft ideas. This makes the shift from the digital to the physical world feel natural and exciting, rather than like a downgrade. 

Be Their ‘Play Starter’ 

Often, a child just needs an initial spark from you before they can engage in independent play. Be their ‘play starter’ for the first few minutes help them build the first Lego tower, set up the pieces for a pretend shop, or start a scavenger hunt. Once their imagination is sparked, you can gently step back and let them take the lead. Your initial engagement is often all it takes. 

Create a Distraction-Free Environment 

Even a muted television in the background can compete for a child’s attention and make it harder for them to become fully absorbed in their play. Create dedicated device-free spaces and times in your home so that other, quieter activities have the chance to shine without the constant pull of a digital distraction. 

Celebrate Their Creativity and Effort 

Acknowledge and praise their non-screen creativity with genuine interest and enthusiasm. A simple, heartfelt comment like, ‘I love how you built that fort!’ or, ‘That is such an interesting story you have imagined for your dolls,’ makes their play feel seen and valued. This positive feedback is deeply rewarding and encourages them to do it more often. 

Over time, these small but intentional changes can shift your child’s excitement back towards the kind of imaginative play that builds creativity, problem-solving skills, and deep focus. 

Spiritual Insight 

Play that nurtures creativity, strengthens relationships, and builds useful skills is considered a blessing in Islam. Our tradition encourages parents to provide wholesome and beneficial forms of engagement for their children. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Luqman (31), Verse 17: 

‘O my son, establish your prayers, and (seek to) promote positivity, and (seek to) diminish negativity; and be patient with what afflictions you come across; indeed, these (matters require) fortified determination…’ 

This beautiful advice from Luqman to his son reflects the importance of actively guiding our children towards what is beneficial, and teaching them the patience required to develop good and lasting habits. 

It is recorded in Sunan Abi Dawud, Hadith 2578, that Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: 

‘I had a race with him (the Prophet) and I outstripped him on my feet. When I became fleshy, I had a race with him (the Prophet) and he outstripped me. He said: This is for that outstripping.’ 

This narration shows us that the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ himself valued playful, physical activities that brought joy and strengthened connection, without the need for any material distractions. By reintroducing non-digital play in a way that is interactive and full of warmth, you help your child find deep joy in the kind of play that will shape both their character and their cherished memories.