How do I explain to others (family or in-laws) that tantrums are not just misbehaviour?

Many adults view tantrums as intentional disobedience or a child trying to get attention. Tantrums can indicate that a child is experiencing emotional overload, struggling with self-control, or has needs that are not being met. Young children often struggle to communicate their feelings of frustration or tiredness in suitable manners. Distributing this information to family members may assist in changing their viewpoint from assigning blame to fostering understanding. It is important to understand that tantrums should be seen as a form of communication rather than just misbehaviour. We aim to comprehend the underlying reasons for the behaviour be it hunger, fatigue, or emotional distress and address that need rather than resorting to punishment. Propose to provide a resource for example, not as a form of correction but as a means of collaboration. Emphasise that your objective is to prevent disruptive behaviour while guiding your child in expressing strong emotions in a safe manner. Employing a tone of guidance instead of discipline can be beneficial in these discussions.