How can parents guide a child who starts mimicking inappropriate language or humour from a show? 

Parenting Perspective 

It is natural for children to imitate what they see and hear, but when that includes inappropriate language or humour, it is a crucial moment for gentle guidance. A calm, consistent response is far more effective than an angry reaction. 

Differentiate Between the Show and Your Home 

Start by calmly drawing a line between entertainment and your family’s values. You can say, ‘I know that character on the show says that word, but in our family, we use words that are kind and respectful’. This teaches them to be critical consumers of media, rather than just passive imitators. 

Correct Immediately but Gently 

Address the inappropriate word or joke every single time you hear it. A simple, consistent phrase like, ‘That is not a word we use,’ or ‘That joke is not respectful,’ is all that is needed. This repetition creates a clear boundary without escalating the situation into a dramatic power struggle. 

Remove the Source if Necessary 

If the child continues to mimic the behaviour, it is a sign that the show’s influence is too strong. At this point, it is wise to limit or remove access to it. Frame this as an act of protection, not punishment: ‘My job is to help you take care of your heart and your tongue, and this show is not helping right now’. 

Provide Positive Alternatives 

Fill the space with better examples of humour and joy. Share funny, age-appropriate books, watch wholesome Islamic cartoons together, or tell your own silly jokes. When you praise your child for their clever and kind humour, you reinforce the idea that being respectful does not mean being boring. 

With calm correction and loving redirection, parents can guide their children towards using their words in a way that reflects good character and dignity. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam teaches that our speech is a direct reflection of our faith and that a believer’s tongue should be a source of goodness, not filth or hurt. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Ahzaab (33), Verse 70: 

‘O those of you, who are believers, seek piety from Allah (Almighty) and always speak with words of blatant accuracy.’ 

This verse is a direct command to be mindful of our speech. It reminds us that every word should have a good and right purpose. This is a beautiful principle to teach a child: our words should be used to build, to be kind, and to be truthful, not to be sarcastic or rude just for a laugh. 

The character of a believer is defined by the purity of their language. 

It is recorded in Riyadh Al Saliheen, 625, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘A believer is not one who insults, curses, speaks obscenely, or utters foul language.‘ 

This hadith provides a clear and beautiful identity for a Muslim. It teaches children that using clean and respectful language is not just a rule, but a defining feature of a person whose heart is connected to Allah. By guiding them away from inappropriate language, we are helping them live up to this noble, prophetic standard.