Parenting Perspective 

The media frequently presents an exaggerated image of wealth, featuring luxury cars, mansions, and glamorous lifestyles. For children, whose understanding of the world is still developing, this can distort their perception of reality. They might begin to see this level of affluence as normal, concluding that happiness and respect are only attainable through material possessions. 

Developing Unrealistic Expectations 

Children may start to expect a similar lifestyle at home, which can lead to dissatisfaction with what they already have. This can manifest in complaints, persistent demands, and feelings of resentment when parents need to set financial boundaries. 

The Erosion of Gratitude 

Constant exposure to exaggerated wealth can make everyday blessings, such as family meals or modest treats, seem insufficient. A child may begin to undervalue simple joys and adopt a mindset where nothing is ever enough. 

Linking Identity to Possessions 

Some children may start to measure their self-worth against what they own, rather than by their character. This can be harmful to their confidence, causing them to feel inferior if they do not have the specific brands, gadgets, or luxuries they see online or on television. 

Guiding Children Towards Reality 

Parents can counteract these influences by actively teaching a more balanced perspective. 

• Explain that the media often shows an illusion, not the full picture of real life. 

• Share and reinforce family values that prioritise simplicity, gratitude, and honesty. 

• Encourage your child to focus on effort, kindness, and personal achievements instead of material wealth. 

With consistent guidance, children can learn to appreciate their own reality without being negatively influenced by media fabrications. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam teaches that wealth is a trial from Allah, not the ultimate measure of a person’s success. Media exaggerations can distract children from this fundamental truth, planting seeds of greed or envy if not countered with spiritual guidance. 

Recognising Worldly Deception 

The Quran reminds us that the attractions of this world can be misleading, and that true, lasting value is found only in the Hereafter. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Aalai Imran (3), Verse 185: 

‘…And the worldly life is nothing except (a momentary) delusion of enjoyment.’ 

This verse teaches us to be mindful that worldly displays can divert us from what is truly important. 

The Prophetic View on True Honour 

The teachings of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ shift our focus from accumulating wealth to earning honour through righteous actions. 

It is recorded in Sahih Muslim, Hadith 2588, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Wealth does not decrease because of charity, and Allah increases His slave in honour when he forgives others. And no one humbles himself for the sake of Allah except that Allah raises him in status.’ 

This hadith reminds us that real honour is found in humility and generosity, not in material excess. 

Teaching Children the Meaning of True Richness 

By weaving gratitude and humility into conversations about wealth, parents can help their children see beyond glamorous lifestyles. This approach grounds them in the belief that success is measured by faith, character, and service to Allah Almighty, not by the possessions displayed in the media. Through this, children can develop a healthier sense of reality and a deeper, more lasting contentment.