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How can I encourage emotional bonding between my children as siblings?

Parenting Perspective

Model affection and respect for one another. Cooking, board games, or collaborative creative endeavours are examples of shared activities that can foster teamwork. Steer clear of comparisons. Use phrases such as ‘We look out for one another’ or ‘In our family, we help each other.’ Encourage empathy by asking, ‘What do you think your sister was feeling at the time?’ Instead of placing blame when disagreements occur, assist them in expressing their emotions. Give cooperation more credit than rivalry. Through mutual happiness and healing after a breakup, bonds are further strengthened.

Spiritual Insight

Sibling relationships are part of our Amanah. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Hujuraat (49), Verse 10: ‘Indeed, the believers are brothers (to each other); so, make peace with your brothers…’ It is recorded in Sahih Muslim, Hadith 45, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: ‘None of you truly believes until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself.’ This Hadith exemplifies both the practice of active kindness and theological beliefs. In addition to creating an emotional bond, parents who encourage this love among their kids are fortifying Imaan’s ties within their family. Fostering justice, forgiveness, and affection amongst siblings is more than just a parental responsibility. In the centre of the house, it is a way to cultivate prophetic ideals.

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