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Can too much screen time undo any good habits or ways of thinking that I am teaching?

Parenting Perspective

Yes, excessive screen time can gradually and quietly undo many of the positive habits and thinking patterns that parents work hard to establish. While occasional screen use may offer entertainment or educational content, prolonged exposure can lead to a host of developmental challenges. It can significantly reduce the time children spend engaging in active, imaginative play, which is crucial for problem-solving, emotional regulation, and creativity. It can also displace physical activity, weakening both motor skills and the natural connection between body and brain.
Perhaps more concerning is the impact on attention span. Fast paced visual input conditions the brain to expect constant stimulation, making it harder for children to focus, wait patiently, or persist with a task. Sleep quality can also suffer due to blue light exposure and overstimulated nervous systems. Beyond this, screens often replace essential face-to-face conversations, which are vital for language development, empathy, and social awareness. Even the most educational app cannot match the cognitive and emotional richness of a parent reading a story, cooking together, or solving a puzzle side by side.
For parents who work hard to instil patience, resilience, gratitude, and curiosity, unrestricted screen time can feel like it is unravelling that effort. Children absorb not only what they watch but how they watch it. When screen use becomes a habit rather than an occasional tool, it can weaken a child’s ability to think independently, manage boredom, or process emotions in healthy ways. Creating balance does not require complete avoidance but thoughtful limits. By prioritising real-life interaction, rest, and unstructured play, you protect and nurture the very habits you are trying to build.

Spiritual Insight

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Zumar (39), Verse 9: ‘Say (O Prophet Muhammad ﷺ): ‘Can there ever be parity between those people that have knowledge and those people that do not have knowledge?’…’ This verse highlights the elevated status of those who seek knowledge with sincerity and intention. It is not about consuming information rapidly, but about reflecting, applying, and living that knowledge. The kind of learning that nourishes the soul and sharpens the intellect comes from mindful engagement, not passive observation.
It is recorded in Sahih Muslim, Hadith 2699, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated: ‘Knowledge is acquired through learning.’ This Hadith Shareef reminds us that true learning is an active, intentional process. It requires time, effort, and often the presence of a teacher or guide. While screens may provide quick facts or entertainment, they cannot replace the depth of wisdom gained through lived experiences, meaningful conversations, and the company of people who embody values. By limiting screen time and prioritising interaction, parents are aligning with this Prophetic model of learning. They are protecting their children’s hearts and minds from distraction and encouraging them to grow in thoughtfulness, presence, and inner strength. In doing so, they uphold the Islamic ideal of knowledge that is not only retained but also lived.

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