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Can a poor early learning experience be reversed later?

Parenting Perspective

Yes, it can. While the early years are indeed formative and significant for cognitive and emotional development, they are not the only window of opportunity. The human brain has a remarkable capacity to adapt, reorganise, and grow, a phenomenon known as neuroplasticity. This ability does not disappear after toddlerhood; it continues throughout childhood and even into adulthood. So, if a child did not receive optimal learning support in their early years, whether due to life circumstances, health issues, or missed cues, it is entirely possible to help them thrive later.

What matters most is creating an environment that encourages growth and emotional safety. Children respond powerfully to nurturing consistency, genuine encouragement, and opportunities to re-engage with curiosity. Rich sensory experiences, hands-on learning, and unhurried exploration can help reignite pathways that were once underdeveloped. Emotional healing also plays a significant role. When a child feels seen, supported, and believed in, their confidence can flourish even if their earlier experiences were filled with difficulty or disappointment.

Avoid labelling your child by past struggles. Instead of saying ‘he is behind’ or ‘she has difficulty learning,’ speak in terms of potential: ‘He is growing in this area,’ or ‘She is catching up beautifully.’ Language has power. What children hear about themselves often becomes how they see themselves.

Spiritual Insight

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Zumar (39), Verse 53: ‘Say (O Prophet Muhammad ﷺ): ‘O my servants, those of you who have transgressed against yourselves (by committing sin); do not lose hope in the mercy of Allah (Almighty); indeed, Allah (Almighty) shall forgive the entirety of your sins; indeed, He is the Most Forgiving and the Most Merciful’.’ This Verse, though primarily addressing spiritual failure, also speaks deeply to any human experience of regret or lost opportunity. In Islam, there is always hope. Always room for return. Always a path forward.

It is recorded in Sahih Muslim, Hadith 2759, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: ‘Allah Almighty is more merciful to His servants than a mother to her child.’ This comparison highlights the tenderness of Divine compassion. If even the strongest maternal instinct can nurture, soothe, and restore a child, how much more can be healed through Allah Almighty’s mercy and guidance?

The same principle applies to learning and development. A poor start does not doom a child to failure. With faith, effort, and sincere love, the path can be reshaped. Healing begins with hope, and growth blossoms through belief, both yours and theirs. Never underestimate what a nurturing environment, infused with trust and prayer, can unlock in a child’s journey.

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