How do I address disrespectful emojis or memes? 

Parenting Perspective 

The Impact of Digital Communication 

Children and teenagers often use emojis or memes to express feelings that they might not say out loud. While sometimes harmless, these can cross the line into mockery or disrespect when aimed at siblings, parents, or even teachers. Because digital communication feels less serious, your child may not realise the full impact of what they are sending. Addressing it calmly helps them understand that respect applies equally online and offline. 

You should call out the behaviour calmly. Instead of scolding, identify the problem clearly by saying, “That emoji you sent comes across as mocking. In our family, we do not use humour to put each other down.” This keeps the focus on their behaviour instead of shaming them. You should also teach them the weight of digital gestures. Explain that emojis and memes can speak louder than words because they are a permanent record and can be easily shared. Encourage them to think: “Would I say this to their face with the same meaning?” If not, it should not be sent. 

Offering Respectful Alternatives 

Guide them toward more positive or neutral expressions, such as using a simple smile, a thumbs-up emoji, or words of clarification. Suggest humour that uplifts others rather than embarrasses them. By teaching your child awareness and providing them with respectful alternatives, you help them understand that digital respect is as binding as spoken respect. 

Spiritual Insight 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Hujuraat (49), Verse 11: 

‘Those of you who are believers, do not let a nation ridicule another nation, as perhaps it may be that they are better than them…’ 

This reminds us that mockery, whether it is through words, images, or symbols, goes against the dignity and respect that Islam commands. 

It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 6136, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak good or remain silent.’ 

This teaches us that silence, or restraint, is better than sending something that could belittle or disrespect others. When you address disrespectful emojis or memes calmly, you are linking your child’s digital behaviour to the timeless Islamic values of respect and mercy. Your child learns that their faith shapes every form of communication, reminding them that even humour must protect dignity, not undermine it. This nurtures their maturity, empathy, and responsible online conduct.