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What Routine Builds Awareness of Caring for Community Spaces? 

Parenting Perspective 

Community spaces such as parks, mosques, libraries, and playgrounds are shared blessings that enrich our lives. Children naturally delight in using these spaces but may not instinctively realise that they also have a responsibility to keep them clean, safe, and welcoming for others. By building a simple routine of caring for these shared areas, you can nurture the values of responsibility, respect, and gratitude in your children. 

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Make Tidying Up a Standard Part of Every Outing 

Create a simple and non-negotiable family rule that is practised at the end of every visit to a community space. This could be as simple as, ‘Before we leave the park, everyone in the family helps to pick up our own things and we also check for any rubbish we can throw away.’ When this happens consistently, it becomes a natural and automatic habit

Assign Simple and Clear Roles 

You can make the task of tidying up feel quick and collaborative by giving children small, clearly defined roles. For example: 

  • One child can be in charge of collecting any wrappers or bottles. 
  • Another can be responsible for doing a final check for forgotten belongings. 
  • A third can have the job of reminding everyone that it is time to leave things tidy. 

Having a specific responsibility gives them a sense of ownership and contribution

Participate in Wider Community Efforts 

Strengthen this lesson by taking part in organised community activities, such as local park clean-ups, mosque organising days, or library volunteering sessions. When children see other adults and families also caring for shared spaces, they learn that community service is a shared value and a source of pride. 

Reinforce the ‘Why’ Through Reflection 

After you have completed your tidying routine, take a moment to remind your child of the positive impact of their actions. You could say, ‘Because we all helped to clean up, the next family that comes to the park will find it clean and ready for them to enjoy.’ This helps to connect their actions to their positive effect on other people. 

Acknowledge and Praise Their Contribution 

Even the smallest of actions, like picking up a single piece of litter, deserves to be recognised. A warm word of praise ‘I really liked how you picked up that wrapper without being asked. That was a very thoughtful thing to do’ helps to strengthen the habit with positive reinforcement. 

When practised regularly, these simple routines teach children the profound lesson that enjoying our community spaces and caring for them responsibly are two things that always go hand in hand. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam teaches that caring for our shared spaces is a vital part of our faith, as it reflects our respect for the blessings of Allah and our kindness towards other people and creatures. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Aa’raaf (7), Verse 56: 

And do not spread (immoral) anarchy on the Earth, after it has undergone its reformation; and pray to Him (Allah Almighty) with fear (knowing that you cannot lie to Allah Almighty), and hope (knowing that Allah Almighty is merciful); indeed, the mercy of Allah (Almighty) is proximate to the benevolent people. 

This verse is a reminder that we are commanded not to cause corruption on the earth, which includes leaving places messy or damaged. The act of leaving a space better than we found it is a practical way of “doing good” and drawing closer to the mercy of Allah. 

It is recorded in Riyadh Al Saliheen, Hadith 122, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Removing harmful things from the road is a charity.’ 

This beautiful hadith teaches us that even the smallest act of caring for our public and shared spaces such as picking up a piece of litter that could be harmful is considered a significant act of worship and sadaqah (charity). 

When children build routines of caring for their community spaces, they are not only learning about civic responsibility but are also living out their faith through acts of service. These important habits grow into lifelong values of stewardship, kindness, and gratitude, shaping them into people who protect Allah’s blessings and actively benefit others. 

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