Parenting Perspective 

Set a Clear Rule: No Personal Details 

Voice chat in online games can expose children to inappropriate language or unsafe interactions. The first and most important boundary is a clear family rule: no sharing of personal information. Explain to your child, ‘You must never share details like your real name, school, or age with anyone online.’ It is vital they understand that strangers online are not always who they appear to be, and that privacy is essential for their safety. 

Control and Monitor Communication 

Depending on your child’s age and maturity, you might disable the chat function completely, limit it to known friends, or allow it only under supervision. If voice chat is permitted, teach them how to mute or block other players who are rude or disrespectful. Crucially, encourage your child to tell you immediately if they encounter anything that makes them uncomfortable, reassuring them that they will never be in trouble for being honest. 

Create a Safe and Balanced Environment 

By setting clear, consistent rules and explaining the reasons behind them, you help your child enjoy gaming in a safe, balanced, and respectful way, without taking away the fun of the game. 

Spiritual Insight 

Every Word is Recorded 

Islam teaches that speech is a trust from Allah and that we are accountable for every word we utter. The Quran reminds us that we are constantly being observed and that our words are recorded, a principle that applies as much to online chat as it does to face-to-face conversation. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Qaaf (50), Verse 18: 

‘(Man) is unable to utter a single word, without him being closely observed (and all actions being recorded), who is always present.‘ 

Speak Good or Remain Silent 

The prophetic tradition provides a simple yet profound guideline for all our interactions: if we cannot say something good, it is better to remain silent. This is a perfect rule for a child to remember when engaging in online chats. 

It is recorded in Sahih Muslim, 48, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak good or remain silent.’ 

A Reflection of Islamic Values 

When you connect these online boundaries to the Islamic principle of accountability before Allah, your child learns that the rules are not just for their physical safety. They are also a way of practising the values of respect, responsibility, and dignity that are central to our faith.